Sometimes it can be so aggravating working with singles in their twenties. They are such great people. Diverse, full of life, tons of hobbies. But they are also deficient in one major area. Being single. Unfortunately, this is no time for being deficient in single life. The twenties is actually the time period that is filled with the most opportunity to meet someone! So if you are a single in your twenties, pay attention people. I’m about to help you avoid the three biggest mistakes men and women in their twenties make.
1. Trying to time life.
Singles in their twenties often have a terrible habit of trying to time out their lives. They attempt to put ages on when they will get married, have babies, buy a home, etc. This will put any single on the fast track to failure or settling for less than what he or she deserves. You can’t time when you will find love. If you try to put a number on it, you are taking a massive risk of never fulfilling your goals.
2. Focusing too much on a career.
A focused career is definitely a good thing. But it’s not good when it trumps your entire social life as well. Putting off romance indefinitely for when your career will allow you more time to date is giving the work force a free pass to keep you alone forever. No job is worth sacrificing the best years of your life with someone special for. There needs to be a balance. If you have a career that doesn’t allow you to choose both, then you may want to look into a new path.
3. You are not flexible enough with your plans.
As a single in your twenties life will often get very busy. You may have plans on Monday through Thursday and someone asks you out. Are you willing to sacrifice one day at the gym or one yoga class to meet up? Or are you going to postpone till next week and run the risk of the other person moving on to someone with more free time. Know your priorities and be flexible or you are going to miss out on many great opportunities, and maybe even the one.
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