Everyone, most everyone is in a relationship they don’t want and think that they could do better or this may not be the right one. In regards to that mentality, advertising and some of human nature-the path that you have most practiced has us groomed to believe the next thing is going to be the better one.
How do you take the resistance out and put the loving reassurance of a relationship you want back in? Esther Hicks via channeling Abraham brings us the wisdom of consciousness and the least resistance. The trouble with the way people think about relationships in today’s world is television and advertising has us brainwashed into thinking it happens a certain way. That may work for advertising and on television/porn but not in real life. Men and women are operating on automatic pilot. Where’s the love and cum-passion that resides in a real relationship?
You have to create your own show You are disempowered by so many things when your attention is focused on celebrity and media. Ask most women these days and they will tell you that their man makes loves and holds a relationship as if they watch too much porn and read too much from Ask Men.
When you are reading something that has a predetermined way for you to feel in your own unique relationship, it’s not coming from the gut or the heart of your matter. You re not involved. Social media has it’s place with ‘help’ but it isn’t going to give you the secret to the power of love. A zombie relationship is one void of creativity, spontaneity and focused attention, which we all know from pastor and author Rick Warren, is the key to any successful relationship.
Cut the crap Stop going over it in your mind. The generalizations about relationships and what you think or may have heard they are about re a waste of your time. Maybe you are in a relationship you’ve decided some kind of breakup is necessary but you don’t really want to breakup. The habits have become stealth and it hasn’t been easy but it is worth it.
Your relationship preferences There are many probabilities and certainties to satisfy your energy d their energy. Now you just need to get out of the way of it. The path you have most practiced is the path of the most momentum. Are you practicing the path to what you want. It’s easy to practice complaining and make that path the path to least resistance. The world is full of them. You can be in a relationship and on your way to one that you want. You’re path always has you in the relationship with the one you want.
What would it be like to be in the delicious relationship you want What does it feel like to be the object of someone’s attention cooperatively moving through life making decisions together? Practice it. That is what the path to least resistance feels like. What does it feel like to be tuned into source energy and the object of that persons energy? What does that feeling of love and appreciation feel like? That is what the path of least resistance feels like. Invincibility, power, love unconditionally. Not virtual but a real live focused relationship. What would that relationship feel like when we are paying the bills, taking care of children and going to work without sleep, providing that is what you map your relationship out to be.
Every time you are worried, frustrated or lonely you are off the path Almost everyone is in a relationship that they want, then don’t want. Begin where you are right now. You’re critical, you’re picky, you’re moody, you are constantly poking the relationship with a stick. Law of attraction will see you in it and rendezvous with you in it there. Since you have practiced in it you recognize it when it happens.
If the universe has matched you with something that isn’t in your vortex, you are in the wrong place. The universe always matches you with what you are looking for. Focus your emotions to the relationships you want.
Right now fast forward to what that dream relationship feels like and practice everything that feels like that If you have a relationship you want the path of least resistance is clearer when you appreciate it and savor it, and the music, and dinner and the place you live. You do it by doing stuff that feels good to you. If you are complaining you have the path of least resistance on clog with other things.
You are on the process to a better road Now what will you do with your day? Crashing and burning a little bit works, so the two of you have dropped to a lower vibration. C’est la vie and move on. You could say. “It is my powerful intention to be in the highest alignment as I move into our relationship.” When you practice what a loving relationship would feel like when you get there you recognize it, “Hey this is it.” Now get out of the way of it. Are you practicing the way of a relationship that you want or are you just taking the path of what you feel is the least resistance and has nothing to do with what a relationship is but just in making me happy?
Practice the good feeling relationship to perfection, it’s how you get good or excel at anything. Practicing it for only twenty minutes and getting fed up does not make a ‘dream relationship’ work. You have to sharpen your resolve emotionally. When you are savoring life, you are savoring relationship. The path of least resistance is already established. When you are complaining about life in general chances are you are complaining about your relationships not just your love relationship. It’s the flow, it is or it isn’t.