Walking around the house wearing stained sweats, an over-sized t-shirt complete with holes is comfortable. Even wearing a housecoat like the one grandma wears with the zipper in front topped off with a hair bonnet. But these looks are not sexy.
It’s her house. It should not make a difference what she’s are wearing. No one will see her, right? Wrong! Her spouse can see her. She forgot how once upon a time while they were dating, she would never be caught dead wearing anything close to what she carelessly struts around the house in currently!
What should she wear?
She can consider lounge wear. Several stores offer this. Classics like Target or anywhere a clothing store sells lounge wear for women that will turn her look from 75 year old spinster to the 35 year old youngster that she actually is. If she desires more high end, sexy lounge wear, she can check out Victoria’s Secret. And no, it is not all lace, garter belts, silk and satin. They actually sell cotton and even jogging pants!
What is lounge wear?
Lounge wear typically includes thin cotton pants, with an elastic or tie-up waist that comes in several colors and styles including cropped and even shorts. Sometimes a shirt will be available that matches the pants. It’s basically an outfit worn around the house with dignity that’s pretty comfortable.
What purpose does lounge wear serve?
Well, when an unexpected visitor pops up at the house, instead of running like a chicken with her head cut off dodging all windows, while screaming “just a moment” until she puts on something she can be proud to be seen in by the outside world, she will be able to simply walk to the door calmly after the first knock or doorbell ring without almost killing the puppy by trampling. Lounge wear may even make her bold enough to invite the unexpected guest in for a drink or snack, depending on who it is.
What does lounge wear have to do with the spouse?
Last but not least, lounge wear is sexy. They may not mention it at first or say it often, but they will appreciate it when care is paid toward appearance. Words may not come alone but possibly some action. This action may appear around 1pm on Saturday afternoon and she finds herself, um, in bed after coming down in her new lounge wear with the intent to clean the kitchen. Plans change!
So in conclusion, she doesn’t have to walk around the house in 4 inch heels, an apron or June Cleaver dress unless that’s what she likes but she should also avoid going to the other extreme of looking like a walker from The Walking Dead. A happy medium is reached when she can still turn her partner’s head without all the fluff she usually dawns when she goes out on the town. The flame is easily sparked in the comfort of her lounge wear right at home.