There are always two sides to every story and Chris Brown ( Breezy) let his truth hangout all over Instagram and Twitter Saturday night. He announced that he is single and put his now ex- girlfriend Karrueche on blast not only on social media but at the annual Cali Christmas concert that happened Friday night.
At the Cali Christmas concert Chris Brown asked the crowd how many single ladies were in the house. He then confirmed he was single too and began singing his hit song “Loyal,”and said F that b–th.
Karrueche later tweeted that “N——s be in they feelings when you dump them lol,’ and then put a statement on Instagram reflecting on the importance of finding strength and moving forward from an unhealthy relationship.
Breaking up is never easy for any parties involved but Chris Brown took it too far when he told the world his ex only visited him once while he was in jail for four months and he implied that rapper Drake slept with Karrueche.
There is never a dull moment on Twitter or Instagram but here are some lessons you can learn from this incident:
If someone cheats on you all the time and then acts as if you owe him/her something for improving your quality of life in some shape or form, you need to reevaluate that relationship. When someone truly cares for you, he/she eliminates the mind games and doesn’t cheat on you.
A healthy relationship should improve your life in some shape or form. No relationship is perfect, but you don’t deserve breadcrumbs from anyone.
Did Karrueche cheat on Chris Brown with Drake? The world may never know but it’s hard to empathize with someone that has cheated on his/her partner for years.
Just remember, if you are trying to move forward from a bad relationship, you are the high hanging fruit. You are not the easy to grab low-lying fruit. You are not easy to come by. Someone not up to the challenge will grab the low-lying fruit because the fruit comes by the dozen, the person doesn’t have to try hard to find the fruit.
You are not a low-lying fruit. You are at the top of the tree, the finest of the pick. You are ripe, sweet and can only be accessed by a select few. Sometimes we pray for the things we do not really want. It takes sacrifice to get what you really want out of life.
Do not cheapen my high self-worth because you can only be grasped by those willing to climb the tall tree to reach the branches of divinity.
The journey can be uncomfortable at times but the reward is worth it. You can only reserve yourself for someone who is open to authentic joy and emotional connection, if happiness is your goal.
A woman or man has to do more than show up in your life. He/she needs to feel he deserves a great person like you. If someone is not confident in his/her abilities, he/she will never get more of what he/she wants, including love from a great person.
With that said, you cannot forget the person is climbing a tall tree, risking injury to show you he/she is worthy of you and won’t waste no time playing games.
It is your choice to give that person a chance to shine because you must value yourself and your time. You deserve someone willing to give you his/her best, and not just to anybody.
If the person you love is not up to the challenge, you will continue to shine and live a remarkable life. Above all, value yourself enough to walk away if your worth is not recognized.
Tell the world you are not here to play hard to get and calculating when to be available. You are just here to do the things in the name of happiness and valuing yourself.
That is what you deserve. You don’t need a Drake or Chris Brown. You need you.