I love words and if we look within a lot of words we can understand a deeper meaning. Let’s take insecure or insecurity for an example, we hear that word in our society and cue the screech of the knife blade heading for the shower in the Bates Motel Scene… you’re insecure? And we often in our society deem that as a bad thing, but what does it really mean? Well, look at the word – in-secure-
The key to the recreation is found in the word- security. It’s that feeling of not being secured in something… could be in life, could be in job, could be in love, etc. etc. I just uprooted my life readers to make this move to New York so I’m still in flux as I put in the pieces so of course I’ve been dealing with wave’s of insecurity where I start feeling bad or less than, or not at my full power so I think what the heck am I actually capable of, etc. There’s a purpose to that and I believe it’s two things: 1. Emotions are our beacons our guidance points so those emotions or feelings are leading us to anchor in our dreams to guide us to do the basic things such as sustain day to day life and then to exceed beyond that to whatever level of satisfaction that we see fit. 2. It’s part of the souls lesson here to remember that we are the source of love that no matter who, what, when, where we can hold our heads high and be secure in knowing… everything is going to be alright. It’s moving past those waves of fear that make us less afraid, it’s conquering those moments of insecurity and securing ourselves where we realize what our true and full potential is.
I found myself thinking in this space… oh gosh, can I really let someone in now in this state it would be better when: cue the list of tangible things that would make me feel more secure… but those are all things…they come, they go… I’ve seen an entire life change in but a moment proof that nothing is promised or guaranteed… and in the meantime you are missing out on SO many things! You’re not going to be with the great guy or girl if you keep pushing them off to the “perfect” moment, you’re not going to get the great job or artists contract or you name it that you are to afraid to go after because you’re not feeling secure in a certain moment.
So that my friends is the key and to quote David Deida who says “you will choose the easy way out until you realize that it only leads to suffering and then you will open to love.” Can you see how that applies to this situation? Your insecurities are fears they are feelings of lack of less than, of not enough and that is not true when we know that the world is abundant when we open our hearts so stop taking the easy way by playing small and living a small existence where you don’t put yourself out there today or any day because you’re not feeling secure and realize that you ARE SECURITY. You are divine, unique, heavenly, worth it… you are worthy of your dreams and your best life, you are worthy of love and all of the blessings that come with it.
You might say… this is airy fairy but… that’s the deceptive part… we look around for instance last night at “Town Hall with the President” dealing with immigration laws and war and all these seemingly real issues and challenges and you think “and you are trying to tell me it’s love and it’s all perfect” and we become overwhelmed and go but look – look at this – capitalizing on some catastrophic story or moment but I say… look at love.. look at the missing ingredient which is that we are all mostly in this fear based chaos space we’ve scientifically proven both our hearts radiate a frequency and we have also proven that effects EVERYTHING around us and shapes it on a molecular level what does that mean? We are ACTIVELY CO-CREATING in every moment to make this life what it is. Take back your power friends… love yourself fully today… don’t be secured by other people, places, or things… those are all fleeting, even the love of another is not stable it comes and goes and the only love that is truly always present for you whenever you need it is in your heart… it’s your faith and connection to your higher power, whatever that is, and it can be always, in any moment.
So look at yourself in the mirror today and remind yourself of all the things and reasons why you are so lovely! If nothing else, it will just make you feel good and you deserve it so…
By Ashley Davene
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