New Year’s Eve is one of those special times of the year when you can easily catch a cheating mate. Most cheaters will inadvertently give themselves away. If you suspect your spouse or significant is having an affair, now is the time to be alert. But knowing what to look for is the key.
The one thing that gives every New Year’s cheater away
There’s one thing almost every cheater does this time of the year which will inadvertently give them away. All you have to do is watch and wait. Pay close attention to the cheater’s behavior as it gets closer to the time to ring in the New Year, and ring out the old. Most cheaters will find some way to communicate with their affair partner during this small window of time.
Regardless of whether you and the suspected cheater are out partying with a crowd, or spending an intimate New Year’s evening at home, this is the thing most cheaters usually do that will easily give them away. It will be hard for the cheater to resist the urge to contact his or her secret lover to wish them Happy New Year shortly before after the new year rolls in. Stay alert and you might even catch the cheater in the act.
Check out your fellow party-goers on New Year’s Eve
Infidelity studies show that 75% of the people cheating on their mates are having affairs with either workmates or friends. So the likelihood is extremely high that your cheating partner is romantically involved with someone you know. It could be a neighbor, a mutual acquaintance, or possibly a family friend. If it’s someone from your social circle, all of you could find yourselves attending the same party on New Year’s Eve. If so, you have a golden opportunity to check the situation out.
Whenever the two lovers are near each other, their behavior or body language will give them away. As mentioned above, knowing what to look for is the key. Be on the lookout for both subtle, as well as obvious telltale signs. It may be something as subtle as a look, a touch, a wink, a caress, or calling each other a pet name. Or it could be as bold, or as brazen as kissing, heavy petting, or sneaking off sex if they think the coast is clear. If your spouse or significant other disappears for an extended period of time, discreetly attempt to find out where he or she is.
Don’t accuse an innocent mate
These are just a few of the signs of infidelity a spouse or significant other can find shortly after Christmastime. But you should never accuse your partner of cheating solely on the basis of one or more of the signs above. Before you confront your mate about cheating on you, be sure you’re on solid ground. Things are not always what they appear to be. Bear in mind that signs of infidelity never exist in isolation. If your spouse or significant other is really cheating on you, there will always be multiple signs.
Invest in a good infidelity reference book
A good infidelity reference book like Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs can help you find additional proof that your partner is having an affair. . It documents practically every known sign of infidelity, most of which apply to cheating woman as well as cheating men. For more information about this book click here, or order the e-book version directly from Booklocker.com NOTE: The telltale signs in this article are taken from various chapters in Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs.
Resources to help you catch or monitor a cheating mate
If unidentified people are calling, texting or e-mailing your spouse or significant other and you want to know who they are, the affordable, online services below can help.
www.CheatingSpousePhoneSearch.com – to find out who a phone number belongs to
www.CheatingSpouseEMailSearch.com – to find out who an e-mail address belongs to
www.CheatingSpouseBackgroundCheck.com – to run a discreet background check for additional details on any names you find.
This information is provided as part of infidelity expert Ruth Houston’s 7th annual Christmas Infidelity Awareness Campaign article series. For other articles in the series, see the list below.